Welcome to How I Do It, the series in which we give you a seven-day sneak peek into the sex life of a stranger.

This week we hear from Lillith Lodge, a single escort and content creator from Brisbane.

After starting out as an exotic dancer, she became a sex worker four-and-a-half years ago in a bid to make more money. ‘I wasn’t sure if I’d be able to do it at first, but I’ve never looked back,’ Lillith tells Metro.

Also candid about the realities of sex work, the 29-year-old admits that although she has a ‘positive relationship with sex’, it can sometimes get a little clinical or uncomfortable with clients.

‘I’ve had a few times where I’ve had to ask a client to leave the appointment early because of their behaviour, Lillith explains.

‘I’d like sex to always be enjoyable in an ideal world, but sometimes the way they have sex with me means this isn’t possible.’

Even so, she is happy with how her career has panned out as she can make up to thousands of pounds a day, as well as sometimes getting to – and play – with friends.

Without further ado, here’s how Lillith got on this week.

The following is, as you might expect, NSFW…

Monday

I get up at 7am and head to the gym for my usual cardio, then I have two hours to get ready for my 10am.

This is a client I’ve seen roughly 10 times. He was initially very nervous and shy but he’s opened up over time. I think that’s why he sees sex workers, because he finds approaching women intimidating.

I can be myself with him without judgement which is nice, but the sex is a little awkward, due to his inexperience.

He stands while I give him a blowjob before getting into the main event. We always start with me on top, followed by missionary, followed by another (very sloppy) blowjob.

He doesn’t finish – he never does – but this isn’t an uncommon thing with a lot of the men I see. There are lots of reasons why they can’t, and he tells me he hasn’t finished with anyone, ever. I still enjoy our time together because we get along so well. 

After, I have a quick lunch and an energy drink before heading to the bank to deposit my earnings. 

Back home I sit with my ‘available now’ flag showing on my OnlyFan ads to notify clients I am waiting for work – but it’s a slow season, and I guess £625 is all I’m making today. Instead, I spend time on my account replying to messages. 

Tuesday

I wake up late but I’m ready in time for my 11am three-hour booking. My bestie Hannah joins us and, oh, how I love a threesome – there are so many more positions you can do!

I’ve been with this client for about a year, he flies in from Sydney just to see me and he’s an absolute treat.

I don’t think I’ve cum so many times in a row in my life, but this is the joy of three participants. Side by side blowjobs where our tongues touch send me wild. I have an insane orgasm riding his face, then another two while Hannah goes down on me.

Honestly, it’s bookings like this where I feel unbelievably grateful to be able to do this. 

Just an hour after this booking I have a two hour session with a brand new client. It’s nice meeting people when they are polite and respectful like he is, which isn’t always the case.

We start with a blowjob, then I climb on top for a few minutes, and it’s the good old ‘frog legs’ riding that gets him. He’s lovely and well behaved, but I don’t get any sexual pleasure from it. I don’t care, though, I’ve had my fix anyway.

Today I made £1,666 for my first booking (because he always tips £208 on top of what he owes) and £1,093 for the second one. It’s a good number for a days work. 

Wednesday

After a gym session, I’ve got 90 minutes to transform myself from a sweaty mess for an hour-long booking with a married client. I try not to think about that – if it wasn’t me doing it, it would be someone else.

I’ve seen him twice before – he’s friendly and polite, but doesn’t like to talk much, which is understandable.

We exchange cash in the first five minutes and get straight to it after he takes a shower. We go for 50 minutes straight before he finally finishes.

I find the way he f**ks me to be too hard to be enjoyable, and this is where we walk a thin line as escorts. It’s not so rough that I need to tell him to stop, but I don’t enjoy it. I prefer a build up, before easing into a fast tempo.

However, he just wants to f**k like a jackrabbit, so sometimes he’s just ramming it into my sides.

I should also add he had a small amount of cheese under his foreskin, which really turned me off. Thankfully he didn’t pay the extra £156 for a condom-free blowjob.

Once he’s gone I have four hours to eat, clean the room, answer messages and get ready for my next appointment, which is a client I’ve seen many times, who’s in a wheelchair so the way we do it is a little different.

We start out with a good chat, catching up for 30 minutes while he waits for his blue pill to kick in. He says he feels more sensation when it’s slow and gentle, so I have to be careful not to injure him by putting too much weight on certain parts of his body.

He loves me on top, but we also do missionary and me on my side with my leg back over him. This position is great because he gets in deeper. I really enjoy our time together. Regular clients are just the easiest, as after a few visits it really just feels natural.

He pay me £703 and I really should work more, but I have a custom video to complete before I go to bed, so I focus on that instead before turning in.

Thursday

It’s my day off from escorting today, so I go to the gym and then head to lunch with a couple of industry friends, Jade Blair and Hannah Williams. It’s so nice to have peers I can talk to about everything. We just get each other. 

When I get home at 2pm, I plan my flights and accommodation for two tours I have coming up. I then pop out to the shops quickly to do a restock because I’m really low on mouth wash and that’s a disaster waiting to happen, as all clients must shower and use mouth wash on arrival.

At 4pm I record two custom videos. One is easy because it’s just sitting down and talking about my day and my goals, nothing sexual. The other is a foot fetish video, but it’s tricky. He wants me to do a foot job on a dildo but it doesn’t suction to the ground very well…

Friday

I have a prebooking for 7pm tonight but the day is pretty empty. I work on getting a backlog of TikTok content prepared so I have things to post everyday.

When my client arrives it turns into a five-hour booking. He’s a regular so we yap each others ears off.

We have sex for about 15 minutes but he gets bored very easily.

He’s an older guy and was a virgin when I first met him a year ago. He’s seen lots of working girls but he really isn’t that bothered about sex.

His d**k is huge by the way,one of the biggest I’ve ever seen, -and it’s very thick.

He can’t feel much when he has sex so we just have a great time hanging out, just kissing and cuddling.

Saturday

I have a lie in so I can stay up late as that’s usually when I make money a Saturday. I don’t have any pre-appointments but then I suddenly get a 30-minute booking. I don’t like these much because they’re rushed and the guys often need more time, but I love this one! He really knows what he’s doing and we have great chemistry.

I get to finish too, in laying down doggy-style which is my favourite.

I snag another booking at 6pm – a gentleman with a wedding ring. He’s polite but wants to get straight to business. He gives me oral which is a nice treat (it’s not often someone wants me to finish first), and he’s incredibly good so I climax in less than 10 minutes.

Then I climb on top, followed by reverse, doggy and finally missionary. To finish I give him a big sloppy blowjob and he busts in my mouth right as the time runs out.

He loves watching me swallow and says his wife never does that.

Another booking comes through at 11pm for three hours. I am so tired and the clients are a handful because it’s a party booking, three working girls for three guys in a huge hotel room.

They’re drunk and snort cocaine every five minutes. This is sadly part of the job. I don’t hate these bookings and I’ll have a drink, but I do hate it when they pressure me to do drugs, as I simply don’t want to.

Clients are given a full list of services I offer and allow before making a booking, but when they’re this drunk they forget or disregard it. Often they are very rough, and might choke without consent. They’re also clumsy and seem oblivious to their own strength.

The guy I’m ‘assigned to’ can’t get his d**k to work because of all the cocaine. It’s like a big floppy snake, no matter what I do.

He gets mad I’m not ‘doing it properly’. I hate the rage that comes out of these guys when they’re off their face. It’s safe to say that no penis enters me during this booking. Just an hour of sucking on a floppy d**k. 

Sunday

I’m filming a scene for my OnlyFans with a guy called Jake this morning. It should be good fun because we’ve worked together before.

I’ve never squirted in a scene before and, once we get going, it finally happens. Oh my lord! We have a full waterfall caught on camera. It’s one of the best orgasms I’ve ever had.

We do pretty much every position under the sun, and end with a cream pie- which is a term for when ejaculation runs out of a woman and gets filmed. It is very rare, since all my clients use protection – however it’s a little different for scenes, as we always have STD checks before them.

I’m starving now. It’s currently 6pm and that scene really took it out of me. I’m just going to work on some Tiktoks and social media stuff, reply to fan messages and then head to bed!

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